Friday, August 5, 2011

Who or how can you say you help people?

When I left home with my kids,and left my mom,I should have never looked back, But Also Is Trying to get help from DSS Because they are the ones that caused the most pain in My Life Sure I had Problems with my Mom and how she baby sat my kids but she was living in my home because her son burned her trailor down and she had no where to go,If DSS could find her a place to live that would be great,and thats all I asked,,.My Kids were my life and going back to help her,caused all kinds of trouble and turmoil,But I could have worked it out If DSS had stayed out of it and only helped me for what I asked for and that was to find my mom a place to live.But they come in and turned everything around,and upside down and disrupted my whole life and my kids lives and to this day it has never been the same,and now ite too late,to get any thing back.My mom is dead,the damage has been done,DSS cannot be trusted at any length,If you notice the Majority of them have no kids,and they say they are for getting family's back together,THEY ARE LYING,I believe,that in my home town there once was a preacher involved in child slavery ring in the states of Ga,Al,SC,and a couple other, and the DSS was involved in handing over these kids because they had access to them and they could do what ever they wanted,and even a Judge could not say anything because half the time he took what the state DSS says as LAW. See I went to that Church and asked the preacher for help because I couldn't afford His medical and the preacher wanted to take custody of my 2 children and when I refused he sat down and cried,they litterly had to be kidnapped from the church just to be gotten away from the preacher and his people and this was in the early 80s And I don't know if its still going on but I am glad They didn't get my son and daughter.Later on when I had my 4Th child they were planning on taking it because I proved I could take care of them without DSS I had a good paying Job ,but their father were not paying child support was the only problem so when they decided to take them the last time they didn't make them pay back child support, why is that?Why go after the mother for child support just because she wont conform to your ways of how and where you want her to live when she was not the one who was the Abuser in the case the grandmother was, But yet you will give the children to a father that didn't want them and try to take her last baby too.I don't get it..Ahh I get it Its all about the money you need to operate these places to keep them open and if you don't have enough children in them they get closed down and the government don't fund you. But Half of the children you take are not In danger,Like mine,I worked 2 jobs most of my life with no help from you or their dad and you want to take my kids because you feel they are in danger.The grandmother was old fashioned and believed in spanking,Even tho I didn't,But still yet they were not in danger.You (DSS) put the kids in danger when you put them with a father that didn't want them and threatened them every day of their life ,but did you think to check on that ,No you felt that it was just another kid making up stories,Well his life is not well lived and he was not loved by his dad and Now he is taking it out on his wife and family, see what you(DSS) has done you have cause a lot of damage by taking these kids when you should have just left well enough alone.your help was not needed here and all it did was cause a whole family to split apart .DSS can never be trusted .or the people they work with